This is what Kendrick Vinar calls the Grid of Relationships. Who's pouring into your life? Who are your encouraging peers to your right and to your left? Who's life are you investing in? Everyone needs a coach or a father figure like a Paul. Everyone needs a "shoulder to shoulder" friend like a Barnabus. And everyone needs to be mentoring and discipling someone underneath them like a Timothy... Try your own! Put your name in the middle and fill out the grid accordingly - with real names of course.